You look at me and
I can see the feeling’s gone
What happened to the dream
We planned our future on
You turn away and try to say
What we both know
But, baby, I can’t let you go
Let you go away
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‘Cause I don’t wanna lose your love
I don’t wanna be the one
Who’s broken hearted
Don’t take the only love
I’ve ever known
I don’t wanna lose your love
How could you go and stop
What we have started
Baby, I don’t wanna be alone
I try to hide the hurt inside
So plain to see
I never could keep secrets
From you anyway
So hard to face, I can’t erase
The thought of you
Baby, won’t you change your mind
Change your mind and stay
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takes many forms, from the seemingly insignificant “see you later” to the gut-wrenching realization that someone who made an imprint on your life has vanished forever…
Most of the time, goodbye is said with our words but not with our heart. We end a relationship by trying to make it clear that we no longer want what once was, but no matter how sure we are of our decision, we still fall victim to the triggers that entice us to to rekindle a hello. It can be a song, a voice, a chance encounter, a memory, a dream. It may only last an instant or it may overwhelm our thoughts for awhile, but we find ourselves blocking out the reasons why the goodbye was needed, blocking out the hurt, blocking out the reality, blocking out the finality of the goodbye….
I never look forward for such moment… I dread it, tried to avoid it as much as possible because I am afraid of being hurt, because I have gone through a lot of it. And yes, most of those times I was not ready. They left, every one left, you left…….
I am not sure some people get the concept of privacy. Recently, I learned that the person so close to me, the person I trusted to protect me, the person I entrusted with my whole life which is, well, relatively sensitive. My life is so FILLED with sensitive information.
I’m not sure if it was that apparent to him. Why do you ask that I assume this? He had the nerve to expose part of this sensitive life to his friend, whom I am not acquainted with, nor do I like to be acquainted very much at all. On top of this, my feelings, my fear of thoughts on others head, the way I look down to myself had not been considered. This is a piss-off to me.
Of course everyone acts like I don’t mean a damn thing to them. Well that’s cool. Seriously, why say you will be there if you aren’t gonna be there? Honestly, just take me out of your life if you’re just gonna leave behind and ignore me. Are all this trying to teach me to be alone because thats what it seems like to me?
Being ignored, I’m not here, I don’t exist, I’m not good enough, don’t bother with me, no don’t talk to me, don’t hear me, I’m not here, I’m not here, I’m not here, I’m not here, I’m not here, I’m not here, I’M DEAD!
Endless numbness. When you actually feel, it’s almost unreal. It is only only a drop of artificially flavored happiness, sadness. I don’t want to die like I used to, but still don’t have so much a reason to live. The kind of just waiting to slip back into depression or rise into happiness.
I am numb and just waiting, waiting – will i die or will i live?
When you’re in this numb thing, you can’t tell whether this or depression is better. Because either way, you are not happy.
But when you’re numb, you have absolutely no grip on your feelings. you can’t say, i’m crying because of this, this is how i feel and this is why.
I need love, love to ease my mind,
I need to find, find someone to call mine,
But mama said you can’t hurry love,
No you just have to wait,
She said love don’t come easy,
It’s a game of give and take.
You can’t hurry love,
No, you just have to wait,
You gotta trust, give it time,
No matter how long it takes;
But how many heartaches must I stand
Before I find a love to let me live again.
Right now the only thing that keeps me hanging on,
When I feel my strength, yeah, it’s almost gone,
I remember mama said,
You can’t hurry love,
No you just have to wait,
She said love don’t come easy,
It’s a game of give and take.
How long must I wait how much more can I take,
Before loneliness will ’cause my heart, heart to break?
No, I can’t bear to live my life alone.
I grow impatient for a love to call my own,
But when I feel that I, I can’t go on,
These precious words keeps me hanging on,
I remember mama said,
Can’t hurry love,
No you just have to wait,
She said love don’t come easy,
it’s a game of give and take.
You can’t hurry love,
No you just have to wait,
She said love don’t come easy,
It’s a game of give and take
No matter how long it takes.
No love, love don’t come easy,
But I keep on waiting, anticipating for that
Soft voice to talk to me at night,
For some tender arms to hold me tight.
I keep waiting; I keep on waiting,
But it ain’t easy, it ain’t easy when mama said
You can’t hurry love no,
You just have to wait,
She said trust, give it time
No matter how long it takes.
You can’t hurry love
You just have to wait,
She said love don’t come easy
It’s a game of give and take.
If we can love someone so much, how will we be able to handle it the day when we are separated for long periods of time?
Being separated is part of life and I’m sure all of us has experienced separation at some point. Is it possible that we can love someone and never be afraid of losing them?
Distance never separates two hearts that really care, for memories span the miles and in seconds we are there. Just make sure there are enough memories to fill them in, because whenever I start feeling sad when I miss you, I remind myself how lucky I am to have someone so special to miss, and the oceans and continents that separate us will never overcome the kind of bond that we have; one that transcends all logic and crosses borders not visible to the naked eye
So dear reader, you’d be so lucky If you have the privilege of being with that special someone everyday! Never forget to make them feel valued and loved. When you feel that your relationship is getting too routine or ordinary, remember the hearts who have to endure years of separation from each other, and try to treasure every moment you are together ♥
“A mother is a person who seeing there are only four pieces of pie for five people, promptly announces she never did care for pie.” -Tenneva Jordan
According to a Jewish Proverb “God could not be everywhere and therefore He made mothers.”. No other individual on earth experiences the love, joy, sadness, empathy, sympathy, and every other conceivable emotion that Moms do in the upbringing of their children. Nothing could ever compare to a mother’s love. There are lot of good qualities that my mom have but for sometime i failed to recognize. I love my mom but I hate her sometimes. I had a lot to say thank you for but a lot to say sorry to her too.
My mom is an amazing woman, she’s gone through a lot but she never gave up. I can imagine the sorrow and pain she had the time when Dad shared the love meant just for her to someone. She did not give up on him. Mom held on to God those moments that she was emotionally hurt by Dad. There were so many things she could have done. She could have left and abandoned us. She could have turned inward and feel so sorry for herself. She could have given up, but she didn’t — an epitome of a strong woman and I admire her for that. I had ALWAYS been mom’s little girl, the kid who whines and moans about having a cold, a headache, tummy ache, little scratch, then whines and moans more when given yucky medicine. She had always a way to comfort me. I remember how she use to cuddle me especially when I’m having asthma attacks, the way she managed to make every part of the house safe for my fainting spells, and cleaning me up when I was in such a mess after a nose bleeding-a caring mom and I thank her for that
Mom was always there for every step I made. Watched and cheered competitions, watched and supported me on the lessons and my artworks, watching me walk in the ramps, she had given me the support way greater than I needed, fetching me in school, driving me home. For always believing I am good at certain things, accepting my failures. Always a shoulder to cry on – a supportive mom.
She is my bestfriend, my mentor, my teacher, my counselor, my shock absorber, my financial adviser and a lot more. Everything was well between us two. Mom, thank you so much for always forgiving me despite everything I did to you. I can never repay everything you’ve done and sacrificed for me. Mom, thank you for always being with me . Thank you for not giving up on me in your prayers. Thank you so much mom for taking care of my needs before yours. You have displayed a selfless and humble character that I believe I should also have. I may have failed to tell you that I appreciate your efforts but mom, you should know that I love you.
I felt grateful you are my mom but I realized that you are being over protective, and was starting to control my life. That I felt you are taking my feelings for granted… I wanted you to know I am sorry for putting up a fight. I just wanted you to know that I depend on you but you should also help me decide on my own. I’m still scared right now but please just be there to support my decisions.
Sorry for telling you square in the face that you are a fun-destroyer. Sorry for the guilt feeling and the blame i’ve thrown on you for all the miseries in my life. Sorry for that time I told you how it sucked to be your daughter. I’m sorry I said I wanted you out of my life. Sorry for making you cry mom. You never cried in front of me, though. You would just go inside your room and cry silently. You may not be aware, but my heart got broken and crushed also that night. I’m sorry for being an ungrateful daughter.
. There is no word for this kind of relationship; two people who don’t see each other, but can make each other effortlessly happy. This is a matter of choice….there may be a lot of guys i know and gals around you, still we choose each other that is thousand of miles away and yet, no regrets about it.
What I know and what other people always tell me is - I have to be mature to have a long distance relationship. Funny thing is, when you get to know me, you’ll know I’m not mature, yet I am in a long distance relationship.
I hate the distance so much. I really wished it wasn’t there. I’d give just about anything to be able to see my boyfriend whenever I wanted. I just still can’t though, and that’s just reality.
Sometimes I have to be careful though, because occasionally I can project my hate of the distance onto him. I get angry and just upset at the fact that he can’t be with me, that he don’t have much time for me and I get mad at him, even though I know it’s not his fault. Then most times there’s the wave of anxiety and paranoia. That even trust is not enought to get rid of it. So, irrational and immature at times but…
You know, I do have my days where I think that being in a long distance relationship sucks and it’s pretty dang horrible. But everytime I got a chance to talk to him, for some reason I’m really happy. Thinking on the ldr tag is making me depressed. So I’m not going to think of it. I’m HAPPY. Who the hell cares if we still can’t see each other in another 2- 5 months?
We know that there is a reason why it has still to be this way…. The man that I’m going to spend my life with is working hard so that he can have enough and we can start our life together. Instead of moping around and wishing I was with him (which I do) I should do something about it and stop my whining.
No matter what, I want you to know I am happy… I am happy that you’ve stayed.
From the day I fell in love with you, it never faded. My love for you didn’t stop, even a single second of my life. It flourished, and became more intense. Our relationship dug deeper, and grew stronger. From then on, I realized that it was you who I want to be with for the rest of my life. I vow to sing my life with you, and to love you. I want to live this world with you, no matter how cruel it is. I want to be your wife, to be your best friend, your partner, your better half; your everything. I vow to be faithful to you, to be honest, and to lower down my pride for our pointless quarrels. I want to establish a family with you; to reach your goals with me. I vow to love you, according to what God said. I won’t leave you at any cost. You know how much I love you, and I will stay in love with you. For more years to come….I LOVE YOU BABY!
