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{09/06/2012}   stay

 

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DOUBT is a number one problem that will shake a relationship. How can you say you love someone if you doubt him? How can you be assured of your partner’s love if he in turn doubts you?

Love is Truth. If you love someone, you must be true and open to that person from the start. However, 
it’s sad to know many people are afraid to be open – for fear of being rejected. This has created problems when the partner finds out that the other wasn’t honest. It is always important to be truthful to your partner to remove doubts.

It is important to communicate constantly with one another to build trust. And if mistakes have been made, it is also equally important to say it and believe in the love of the other. Inconvenienced being marriage troubles like hiding mistakes will not solve the problem but even create one.

WORRIES is another element that can shake a relationship. If you’re worried all the time, this will affect your partner and the atmosphere between you and the family. The purpose in marriage is to have a peaceful and harmonious relationship. Therefore, the opposite of worry is peace.

It is important to discuss what you are worried about with your spouse because he or she might be able to help, comfort or solve whatever is bothering you.

Don’t put the burden on you by trying to solve all the problems by yourself.

FEAR of making mistakes and failures in marriage can also shake the relationship. We have heard spouses who are afraid to share their mistakes because they may get rejected or even to the point of getting punished. Why is that so?

Perhaps from the start, they were not able to build a strong relationship of openness with one another. Where there is love between two spouses, there should be no fear. However due to human nature, even if fear may arise, love can go beyond inconvenienced being marriage troubles in order to maintain the relationship with the assurance of forgiveness from the love of the other.

One important way to help to overcome doubts, worries and fears is prayer. With prayer, one’s faith and love will be strengthened.

Then keep yourself busy with good activities. Continue to love the person next to you, perhaps your spouse or your children or a neighbor. This way, you will forget about yourself.

Read good and positive books to remove negative thoughts and be surrounded by happy and positive friends who share happy thoughts.

Doubts, worries and fear truly shake a relationship. They may not disappear overnight but what is important is to make that decision to overcome these inconvenienced being marriage troubles that can damage your relationship because definitely you would want to have a happy and peaceful marriage.

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‎. . . .my kiddish talks . . . .
. . . . my serious talks . . . . .
. . . . my romantic talks . . . . .
. . . . .my angry talks . . . .
. . . . .my sweet talks . . . .
. . . . . my silent talks . . .
. . .. my sad talks…my naughty smile . . . 

. . . . .my laughter . . . 

. . . . . my sparkling eyes . . . .
. . . .my naughty fights…. me teasing you . . . .
. . . . showing attitude . . . .
. . . . my emotional blackmail  (if that’s how it is called). . . . .
. . . . .and to please you . . . .

You love all my colours . . . . :-))
You LOVE me . . . ♥♥♥



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{23/04/2012}   i hope i don’t wake up

i hope i don't wake up



We all know that being alone is sad.
But being alone is better than to have someone who makes you feel alone.

                  


{20/04/2012}   The loneliness …

The loneliness of nights alone
the search for strength to carry on
my every hope has seemed to die
my eyes had no more tears to cry
then like the sun shining up above
you surrounded me with your endless love
Coz all the things I couldn’t see are now so clear to me
You are my everything
Nothing your love won’t bring
My life is yours alone

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{18/04/2012}   this is me…



{17/04/2012}   sick….

I Need a Doctor

the feeling when you are sick and you got no one……

” Mother, mother, I feel sick,
Send for the doctor quick, quick, quick.
Doctor, doctor, shall I die?
Yes, my dear, and so shall I.
How many carriages shall I have?
One! Two! Three! Four!”



You are worth so much more than what your mind tries to convince you.

You are so much more beautiful than the lie you see when you look in the mirror.

You are deserving of so much more kindness than the painful words that have been spoken to you from the mouths of people who were supposed to be your friends.

You are infinitely valuable & deserving of so much more than you let yourself believe.

I pray you will see it soon, & I pray that you will never, ever forget it.

I pray every day of your life you will be reminded of your own value, your own incredible purpose for being here.

It’s critical that you know how unbelievably precious you really are, and that you know it right now. You are loved. Fight this for those who love you, but above all, fight for yourself, because

You

are

worth

fighting for….

 

 

*thank you, jessica…

 

 



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